Sex partners number
Number of sexual partners: In these days where sex is promoted everywhere from magazines and music videos, should you judge your partner by the number of partner she/he slept with? The answer is no of course. Many people in the past told me that once a woman has slept with a certain number of men in her life she is promiscuous and might not become a good wife. the answer to this is men also get around a lot and society judge them on a lower level for this. Our current society will not feel the same about a woman who slept with 20 guys in her life and a man who slept with the same number, the woman will be chastised and disrespected called names whilst the man will be called a “player”, “ladies men” and other similar names. In other words the number of sexual partners is not important.
Dating partners
It is also important to remember that the woman might not be called names only by men but also by other women. Back to the relationship topic, on the relationship side many men and women use this criteria to judge their partner past and to find out whether their partner will be good enough for them. Judging your partner might not be the smartest thing to do, as first people change, he/she might have a time where he/she did not feel the need to have a proper relationship or might have been hurt in the past and felt that relationships might not be a good thing for him/her, second people might have been mislead in believing they were in love or may have been used by the other person they slept with, being naive sometimes after being single for a long time. What does matter is whether he/she has an STD, something that you should know before actually having a long-term relationship with her/him. Another point to remember is that the past lovers does not matter anymore whatever they done with him/her, you are together at the moment that’s what matters. Nothing is wrong in knowing who he/she was in the past, what really matters is the person they became now and how they behave in your relationship.
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