You all made mistakes in our past relationship whether we were young and we thought it was “cool” to play games with the person feelings or whether we could not be bothered or did not care about the other persons feelings at the time. Thereafter we might realise that after all that person we gave so much emotional pain to, was someone with a good heart, that we should have never treated wrong and should have never hurt that much. When thinking about all this we would start to miss that someone from our past and try to rekindle our romance and let them know it was a mistake from our part and that we never meant to hurt them that much. If we decide to get in contact with that person again the message should be a clear one, “an apology” for the pain we caused them. So that your mind can be free of guilt, the messages should not follow-up and the other person should not feel disturbed by the messages. One message should be enough if the person you miss is willing to talk to you, the person will reply. Find the time to explain the situation or the cause of your behaviour at the time, if the person is willing to forgive you, then they might be a chance that your romance starts again, but at the same time you should be willing to make that person feels that she/he made the right choice in giving you a second chance of being that person that will give him/her a smile on her face everyday. Although its important to let the other person know about your feelings, its clear that if the other person do not reply to your messages or your phone call it means that the other person might not wish to be contacted again, sending messages after messages will not help to mend the relationship instead it might even make the person despise you more. It’s also important to note that the other person might also be in a now happy relationship and does not want to think about how much she/he was hurt and that your message might disturb her new relationship. The bottom line is that we should always think of how we treat our other people as we never know how much we miss them once they walk out or push them out of our lives.
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