being used by anybody is a problem. When we feel that we have met the right person, you might indeed feel that after looking for a long time for a relationship your dream has come true, but that other person might have different ideas and might be looking for a bit of fun instead of a relationship.
Being used by someone
Having done it myself numerous times (which I regret now and already apologised to the ladies concerned for having played a bad part in their lives). If you try to contact the other person and the person always has an excuse for example being too busy, but whenever he feels like having sex comes to see you then, you should maybe start to think that he is only after a bit of fun with you and does not intend to be serious and after a relationship.
Signs someone is using you
Of course everybody can sometimes be too busy, but if that person can’t find time for you and can only find time to satisfy himself then it’s about time to realise that the person you think loves you is really playing you. If that person was really interested in you he will manage to make plans to see you and do activities with you. If you feel that the other person is just using you it’s always good to take your courage in both hands and give the person an ultimatum and tell him that you want to be treated with respect not as a toy and that you want a relationship, not a fling. If the other person is not willing to provide you with what you want, then it’s time to think of ending the relationship before you get hurt and it affects your next relationship, as most of the time this kind of bad experience can affect a person so much that their next relationship might suffer from it and they cannot trust their partner. Therefore always look out and remember you can always find and deserve better.
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