Being the Other woman

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Being the other woman, can be a painful experience, as you love the other person and are willing to do anything to have him to yourself, despite his relationship or marriage. But many questions will have to be raised by yourself before entering this kind of relationship or being already the other woman, has he given any signs that he is willing to leave the other person for you and make you the number one woman in his life? Is he avoiding the subject each time you talk about the two of you being together? Or is he just meeting you once in a while to get close? If that’s the case you might need to review the whole relationship you have with the person, as you might not be willing to be used only as a shoulder to cry on when things are not going well in his relationship or whenever he needs a bit of excitement with “the other woman”. Confront him and ask him whether he really intends to be with you, if he cannot give you a straight answer after a while, then you may have to accept that he is only after a bit of fun and that in his eyes you are “the other woman”. After this the one thing that should not come to your mind is a phrase that is most often heard: “all men are the same”, it is not the case, you will find someone better, that will treat you like a person not the other woman in his life.